Thursday, November 5, 2009
Title : It's raining, it's pouring....
Time : 12:58 AM
This is the 3rd time of the day and i believe, it will rain tonight and midnight. What a wet wet year end.
I am seated comfortably on my office chair with the super strong air-con blowing above me. I wrapped myself up with the shawl that Helena gave me years ago. Since then, i had been using it like a blanket when i am out.
Yesterday was a bad day for me. OPS meeting was shit. Client was shitty. Boss was shitty too.
I am seriously considering quitting my job but i am holding on till next year. I kept telling myself that next year is just a few months away... "Bear with it, Rach!"
SIGH...
Most importantly, my family keeps me going. My Darling Bee and my Baby JiA. Everytime when work hits a rough patch, i will usually look at their photos on my mobile or my PC. Looking at their smile makes my day brighter. (shoo dark clouds...) Looking at them sleeping so comfortably at night makes me feel that everything is worth it.
People must be thinking if i really do have such a wonderful and perfect family. Yes, i do. My family is wonderful, marriage is blissful and an almost perfect(not 100%) family. And WHY?
Reason is simple. My husband and I will always compromise. My husband does not like to do houseowork. So i'll do it. I do complain(a lot of times) about it but in the end, i'll still do it. When i complain that i am tired after sweeping and mopping(and many other housework!).... He will ask me not to cook and he will bring the whole family out for a meal. At the restaurant, he will let me eat while he will eat and feed JiA. This shows that he will NEVER allow me to go HUNGWEE~ aka HUNGRY~
When i am having my PMS, he will normally NAG lesser and leave me alone. During the times when i scold my son, he will keep quiet and let me do the job. If there are things that he wants to comment, he will find the right time to talk.
We will discuss and get opinions on many things in life. And that includes purchases, outings and etc.
Another important factor is Sex Life... Always keep it active and alive. As for ours(me & hus), so far so good. No complains. :D
There are a lot more other things that we do for each other It will be too long to blog But if you really want to know, you can actually hang out more often with us. :)Labels: thoughts
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